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Monday, March 15, 2010

Monday Morning

WHAT!!!! its 6:34am and i just woke up. Its going to be a bad day i thought to myself. I woke up late for school, it was a Monday morning. My morning always goes like this wake up by 5:00am, shower for 30 minutes-5:30, dress up(of course y'all know 1 hour), arrange my books and stuffs together in my bag pack, that takes like one hour-7:00am. Then i start reading till 7:45am......i was already wondering how i was gonna finish all and leave for school when i realized it was 7:00am.

I rushed off to the bath house, it was one of the worst bath i have ever had in a while. I went back to my room, dressed up but while i was dressing up, i had to start putting my wares(books, pen and other stuffs) together so that when am done getting dressed i would only have to put them in my bag. It was 8:00 by the time i was done. I went straight to put my shoes on and hurried off. I tried getting a taxi but none was forthcoming.

When i got to the bus station, the bus was filled up so i had to wait for the next one....Oops!!!8:15am.... 8:30, the bus finally came and i hopped in. It took the bus like 25 minutes to get to my destination and i was so angry with myself for waking up late. I know what y'all are thinking ''is she not late yet?'' no but in the next five minute i will be. I hurriedly got off the bus and ran into the department, looked through for my classroom number on the notice board and with that i left for my class. It was, i thought to myself 'this morning isn't a good one'. The rest of the day went almost well but i scaled through. Soon, it was 3:00pm and i was again on my way home and.....
BE BACK NEXT TIME ......!!!!Read and enjoy

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Try thinking about what love is

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never to find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship--and to find out you still care for that person.
A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.
When a door of happiness closes, another opens but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the ones, which has been opened for us.
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and have the best conversation you ever had.
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart, but if it doesn't be content it grew in yours.
There are things you'd love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear it from, but don't be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from the heart.
Love comes to those who still: hope although they've been disappointed, to those who still believe although they've been betrayed, need to love those who still love although they've been hurt before.
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone - but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Hope you find the one that makes you smile.
There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real! Hope you dream of that special someone.
The beginning of love is to let those we love be just
themselves and not twist them with our own image -otherwise; we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.

Tuesday, March 9, 2010


Modesty protects the intimate center of a person, it means refusing to unveil what should remain hidden. It guides how one look at others and behaves towards them in conformity with the dignity of a person and their solidarity. With modesty in mind and heart, comes a lot of things to a person that is conscious of it. It carries you along the shackles of daily temptations, encourages patience and moderation in loving relationships. It inspires your choice of clothing, it is discreet and Modesty is decency. As i write this, i am surprised at how much i sound like a Bible toting conservative. I am not. I only consider myself a responsible adult and person who finds most of fashion trend absurd and funny. It makes me question the decency of fashion, when did it grow out of fashion to be decent? why are we teaching our children and tomorrow's leaders that it is acceptable to be tasteless, unkind and to be without value.
So many designers in vogue now has really crossed the limit of decency with their latest designs. Is it really worth it? women now walk around half or even totally naked in the name of fashion even African women whom it is not in their nature to go nude publicly are also guilty of the same crime. Should we not talk about the Biblical aspect that 'when a woman wear's improper clothing, she is sinning against God'? Modesty in fashion is not just a one way thing, mean also are involved but since am a woman i will simply address d issue concerning women.
Many a time we get stuck in front of our mirrors and seem to be asking ' How tight is tight?, how short is short'? instead of our questions to be 'what is suitable and comfortable yet attractive', what will keep my dignity and integrity intact'?. It is natural for us as women to want to adorn ourselves but end we end up forgetting and loosing the sense of dressing and essence of adornment and get ourselves adorned with 'provocative' clothing purposely intended to entice and seduce men. Men are attracted to women forms by of course mostly outer appearance no doubts, but showing ''ours'' off purposely isn't being modest. When we flaunt all that has being given to us, we forget that somethings are precious and valuable therefore, deserves protection. Modesty as a virtue is not limited to clothing or fashion alone but other aspects of our lives and i will be back to discuss the next topic on modesty......
See you soon

Thursday, March 4, 2010


be right back with the nxt part

Wednesday, March 3, 2010


This is one of the most difficult questions that has being asked without getting the right answers almost every time. It is always assumed when actually it can be defined by he who feel's it. You are willing to die for your child, what do you call that? you want to risk your hard earned career over your spouse, how do you explain that? goes on and on. People actually say its a feeling that surpasses all existence. Yes, it is but does everyone feel the same way for their loved ones?NO. It all depends on the kind of relationship between you and them. To everyone, love expresses itself differently and the truth of the matter is that as 'normal' human beings, we can't go on without loving or be loved. It doesn't necessarily need to occur between just two people but more.
Love connects people in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. Just as deep as love can be it can not be measured. Look at the relationship between mother and child, GOD and man its so unconditional but sometimes this can be very difficult to achieve because we always focus on the bad deeds of our loved ones instead of the good deeds. Love varies depending on the context. Romantic love is deep, intense, interpersonal and even shared on sexual relationships. Platonic love and religious love they are more of felling and preference. Sometimes the very existence of love is questioned, for some it does exists but for others it doesn't, its meaningless and false. There has being hatred but its us who have forgotten the true meaning and essence of love and go ahead to undertake some gruesome apathy. Love brings serenity and happiness, just give the best you can even when it seems its not enough, love always finds a way to rule. right back with the next and be filled

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Getting through the day on holiday's

I wanted the red bag and i also wanted to get the red 'peep toe' shoe to go with it. Then there was that cute red hat and scarf to match, i was all out to get them. I was already running out of cash because i had gotten some clothing already and i just remembered i that forgot my credit card at home. Seriously i needed to do something fast, though i am a Medical student i had to act like an 'Economist'. I did settle down to write my scale of preference, to be able to choose the needed one's. I was done with the 'economics' thing and now left with the red shoe and bag. I had to let go of the scarf, though very painful it was i headed straight to the cashier's desk and paid for my items, then i left the boutique.
I was already at my apartment door when i realized i had misplaced my keys. My mind was in turmoil while i tried to remember the possible places i could have left it. Then it struck me that i had gone to Kemi's house that day, as i was still trying to figure it out she called and told me that i left my keys with her. I was contemplating on whether to go over and get it or wait for her to bring it. Anyway, i rushed off to her house and when i Got there she was out to shop. I know what you are thinking but it was my fault, my battery was FLAT no way she could have reached me. So i had to wait for her to come back and when she finally did, i took my keys and left for my apartment. By the time i got home i was tired, i needed a hot bath to calm my weak muscles down. I headed for the bathhouse, the water was so calming that i didn't want to get out of the bath tub. I stayed in the tub ind went into a deep thought, i thought to myself 'is this how my day would keep going till the holiday ends?' the answer was obvious and glaring, immediately i regained myself. I looked at the wall clock and it was already past 7 o'clock PM so I stood up dried, my body and wore my night gown. I had just realized i was hungry so i went straight to the kitchen to fix dinner for myself. I made french toast and German sauce, i had almost forgotten my juice, i went back to get it and i was on my way to the dinning table.
In less than one hour i was done with dinner and so i cleared the plates and went straight to the sitting room. I turned the television on and started watching 'Disney channels', i remembered i hadn't checked my mail and so i got them into the sitting room. My mum actually wrote me and at least that was something to be happy about, with that i continued watching television and more......However, for some reason i wasn't feeling dizzy or sleepy, i looked at the clock it was to 12 o'clock AM. Though it was past my bed time but....i just noticed i was dozing on the couch, i stood up turned off the television, all switches in the house and went to bed. As i was lying on my bed i prayed for the next day to be better than to day and with that i slept off.........................
till another time


You are the love of my life
The one that take's my pain and strife.
I wake up with the thoughts of you in my heart,
I wonder what the day will be like without you in it.

Just like the moon stands out at night,
Outstanding you are in my world.
So that when i look into your eyes,
What i see is paradise.

You've captured my wondering heart,
That everyday i hold your thoughts more.
No one can ever take your place,
This for sure is a motion that cannot be raised.

A special aboard for you in my heart,
A bond that force can't thwart.
I wish in my world you could stay entrapped,
Never to be stolen by no one else....

be right back for the next one.........stay blessed